Title: Erotic Fantasy Reconsidered: From Tragedy to Triumph
Abstract: Many people approach the inner workings of their erotic mind with great trepidation, believing that the content of their fantasy lives is inappropriate in the context of loving relationships. Cultural taboos about erotic fantasy are so strong that the very idea of discussing sexual fantasy leads some of us to anxiety and shame. Fantasy, however, can be an ingenious way for the creative mind to overcome relational and intrapsychic conflicts around desire and intimacy. Therapists can help couples develop a view of fantasy as a narrative that creates a safe space to experience pleasure that can invigorate their loving relationship. Once the depth, complexity, and healing qualities of erotic imagination are realized, sexual fantasy can be viewed as a staging ground for action and escape that turns the tables on those responsible for earlier experiences of demoralization, defeat, and even trauma. A case with a couple is presented, drawing from systemic couple therapy, psychodynamic and body-oriented practices.
Publication Year: 2014
Publication Date: 2014-01-01
Language: en
Type: book-chapter
Indexed In: ['crossref']
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